Some people just don't get it!

Its apparent who has has lousy priorities or are just plain selfish and self consumed from reading some of the posts here
Years ago when I wanted to get back into the hobby and it's just that a hobby not a life consuming ambition but I wasn't there yet financially there was this guy who had a absolutely gorgeous classic muscle car. I was in awe of this car and my buddy who knew the owner told me, this guy still rents a small apartment, he was married with two girls in grade school
His priorities were never his family other than to keep a roof over their heads and a meal on the table, everything else revolved around the hobby car
My buddy who knew me very well said, take a good look because your the exact opposite of what that guy is
Years later I dont wonder how life turned out for this guy who had that car and its the reason why he is were he is in life and why im were I am
Marry well, get what's important in life in order, when you ignore your wife and make her feel second best, while she does everything for you and your children and all you can do is indulge in expensive things that only you want, my opinion is you are a useless POS
If life turns out less than what you expected and you now have to depend on your spouse you will understand what im talking about in short order