Is More Flow Better, Is The Smallest Intake Port That Flows The Most The Best

I'm not misunderstanding at all. I agree with you.
But without engine torque the car ain't moving, period. just like the bolt.
Torque is important just not so much how much of it you make, 500 tq doesn't automatically mean better than 400 tq, hp curve means more.
HP determines the rate of acceleration, as in power to move. work.
Any movement a car does is work
I have a round about way. lol