A visit to Stephen's Performance

Over the years, I have seen the rise of the self serve junkyards that completely eliminated the interaction with indifferent parts counter guys.
I don't know what it is about them but at least HALF of the counter guys I've dealt with have had terrible social skills. They are blunt, rude, lazy and ignorant to their own inventory.

They might have not liked your attitude. Maybe should tried a jovial greeting instead of standing there with a long face like you entitled to a rare part that you obviously can't buy anywhere else.

Make them love you and want to help you, because there's no shortage of entitled blokes walking through their door and there's more where that came from.

They have the advantage here because they got the good stuff everyone wants, they ain't just some big box store kissing your *** to buy some Chinese junk.

Your presentation probably dictated how this went down and if you really made that comment about not wanting a loan, then it makes complete sense why this went down like this.
How do you know that the OP was to blame?
I've been in the same situation. When I visit a store, I smile and am friendly yet I still sometimes encounter arrogant, sloppy looking, stinky, dirty scumbags behind the counter with a bad attitude.....annoyed at me as if doing their job was too much for them to handle.