9" vs 10" drum brake spindle question

The above kit will require you to use 4.5" lug pattern wheels. If you must retain the 4" wheels, find a Kelsey Hayes OEM setup and use that. They are frequently for sale on here. Or start a "Wanted" thread.
Actually, Doctor Diff does have the 4" BC option on that kit... It consists of late rotors drilled for the 4" bolt circle, and (I believe) the hub turned down to the smaller register. But it's nothing you couldn't have modified locally if you're in a bind for replacement parts.