Will this spring height be ok?

I would not use any shim thinner than 0.030" that comes in contact with the spring. It could get chewed up.
Another option to fine tune spring height is plus & minus 050 valve keepers. In my experience, they usually deliver less than 050, more like 035.

They make hardened shims. If the shim is getting chewed up your valve train is telling you there is a problem.