Why do I keep breaking rocker arms?

I don't get why people seem to have to be the fastest.. it's always cooler to see something interesting.. where i live we have 2000hp **** driving around all the time and stuff... there is always someone faster :) I just wanna be fast enough to have fun :)
As my post above was ...I don't care. Lol What I mean by that ...is I no longer take the time to try and think like other people as to why they do what they do in order to understand. I'm either inclined to help or inclined to turn away. The car is an escape in more ways than one and for some people in this day and age fast soothes the Restless running Souls