Uneven tie rods and adjusters? Steering wheel alignment weirdness

No. The first thing you need to do is find the center of the gear box. Then reset toe so the wheels are straight. Then evaluate WHERE the steering wheel is. Once you do that, report back. Why on Earth would you remove the pitman arm if you don't have to? You may, but you may well not. The only way to diagnose THAT is to find the center of the gear box first.
I may have misunderstood "Best is to disconnect linkage at the box pitman arm to get your box centered" directions above, ok I will work on it in like 5 or so hours