I'm fortunate to live in the metro-Detroit area (always car stuff happening (weather permitting)). Our car club (Twisted Axle Car Club) has a core group of ~40 members that do everything on your list above.
Our mantra is "I drive my ****".
We meet every Tuesday evening for ice cream and a short local cruise.
We host a drag racing event in the fall along with a color cruise.
We've made the trek from metro-Detroit to the upper peninsula for the St. Ignace car show.
And of course the biggest event of the summer, the Woodward Dream Cruise.