It's sort of complicated. Sister and I were adopted before Jr was born. So he got power of attorney and he acts as though hes aire to the throne or something. I regret today that I didn't step up 2 weeks ago and told the A-hole "go on with your holiday. We can lay the body to rest without you. I dropped the ball. Cried and prayed that pop forgives me. BTW, he told my Jr, "I'll give you a grand when you are cleared out. Theres no way to know if that's from his own pocket or the estate. Doesn't matter. Jr told him "choke on it". He denied my Jr as much as a donut from the beginning of this hospice care arrangement. How do you spell asshole?