Need some opinions on where to go from here...

The reason I included the firing order wasn't doubting you wire install. It was to show that 3 & 4 are next to each other on the cap. I don't see the strap on the plug burnt back on 3 or 4 So those cylinders are getting washed with fuel and not firing,

Pull those wires 3 and 4 while its running one at a time. Hold your wife's hand while doing it and you won't get jolted. I always tell who ever is standing here to hold me back so I don't fall into the engine while its running. You know a safety reason, LOL works every time. After about 4 times my wife don't care if I fall in anymore.
Ah gotcha....well I guess now I am doubting my wire install because i'm hoping its something stupid like that. I also wondered if possibly its so rich that it could be washing out cylinders.

Still trying to figure out why I have excessive smoke out the exhaust on the odd firing bank