Way overthought. I have three different types of wheel wrench that could be in a any of my vehicles, you know, the ones that don't "click"! The standard bar that came with the car, a 1 foot crossbar and an 18 inch crossbar. Never gonna be the same with any of them.
I use and impact on all my wheels in my shop. All. I go to number one and then number 4. I figure it is in the 100ftlb range. Never had an issue. I'm fairly certain 90........ok maybe 70% of us here never ever torqued our wheels when we changed them in the driveway or on the side of the road for decades of our driving lives.
Racing scenarios could be considered different. That is a situation of rules and regulations.