Stall speed

How do you select your converter stall speed. Do you target rpm below your normal cruise speed
so there is no slip while cruising, or just look for a flash rpm that is close to your maximum lo rpm torque?
Can you get both? Will modern converters be tight at most rpm and still flash to a higher values?

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