Capn.. you have already enjoyed and shared many moments with the Duke. He has provided you with memories that cannot be diminished with time. Now it's your turn. Give the Duke your time, your love. The Duke is not unhappy that he cannot recreate the old memories, instead is very happy that you are giving him attention. He, unlike you, is not in a hurry. You, like him, should enjoy the experience of the restification.
The journey is often the best part of reaching your destination.
Grant
BTW, I feel like some type of relationship columnist here, and using HE/HIM instead of SHE/HER is a little weird... not that there's anything wrong with that!
