Divorce

hey, I have been there. I am also a child from devorced parents. Remember as much pain and confusion you feel, your kids feel as much if not more. We adults understand things better than kids. Make sure you make a special time and maybe a special activity just for you and your kids. My dad and I always want to the lake on the boat and went fishing during the warmmer months. I always felt bad when I had to hear my dad talk bad about my mom, so dont let the kids know you sour feeling about there mom. Thats a sure way to push them away from you and closer to her. She can no longer be your "x", cause she is now JUST "mommy" and the smallest stupid comment really hurts. My first wife and I had no kids together but I did adopt her daughter. After paying cs for a year, she turned the little one against me, so now she would be 17 and the last time I saw her she was I think 5. Yea, it hurts but you have to be the strong one and only let the kids see unconditional love and "fun with Dad". I hope this helps you a little, my best advise is Prayer. Remember God will not put you thru anything that with him you can not handle.
best wishes and God bless