Divorce

Been there, done that. Excellent advice from the other posts..... you CAN'T drink your feelings away.....concentrate on hobbies/job.......don't badmouth your spouse in front of the kids.......FWIW, ex and I just told the kids "sometimes you fall in love and sometimes you fall out of love, but you kids had nothing to do with us getting a divorce". It took eight years for me to talk to the ex but when the weddings & grandkids started, we had no choice but to be civil around the family. Now, after 24 years, we actually get along pretty good. Also, don't use your friends court experiences as a guide....no two divorce settlements are alike. Best of luck. Tom