Adam, I learned a couple things reading this thread. Contrary to what most women think, men really DO have feelings about things besides food, liquor and sex and aren't as afraid to share them as they'd have us believe. The other obvious thing -- and much more important -- is that you have dozens of friends here who are willing to help you through this tough time with outstanding advice, let you lean on them as needed, and who will be there for you at all times. Your FABO support network is always available, and I just wanna let you know that I'm one of them. :-D