need to clean my hands for wedding...

You could always buff the crud off with your bench mounted wire wheel:-D

Seriously now, the guys above have given some great tips, and I can only add one more (and MAYBE the most important) .. Go to the pharmacy and pick up a little tube of Aveeno Intense Relief hand cream... Since you're gonna wear your hands out cleaning them, this stuff will make them look and feel great, and it's not that greasy type crap...It's the best stuff I've found so far, and I'd bet good money that your girlfriend will like the way your hands feel as much as you do !!

Have a great time!!

Kenny