Divorce

I have been thru this Uggglleeeeeee thing,place a picture of you lil' one every where so that you see it very often,I put one in every car I had to drive at the time,I remember seeing my lil' one's pic everytime something bad would happen......it carried me,helped me make wiser decisions,everytime something tries to get at you ...the pic's of your lil' one will shield you,help you do the right things and act the right way.it's hard to make plans for the future while this is going on so keep the goals small,each goal you reach will help you see that all is good,figure out what you are willing to give up and what you need to fight for,keep that picture in your minds eye with everything you do and all will work out,be as businesslike as possible as far as the ex goes and still be nice at the same time,just remember the apple of your eye is watching.....even if she is not......just remember the pic's everytime you speak and do when the pic's are absent the minds eye will be there.just focus and all will be better than before.hope this will be helpful to you as it was helpful to me,I get my lil' one quite often......very often,I got to pick the hill I would die on and won!!!!!you will do the right things! that picture you keep seeing will make sure of it!as a side note........my ex and I are like best friends now that the scum sucking lawyers and the other nobody's of power have faded out of the picture,it's all about being a parent and a partner no matter what is going on,show that and everyone will see!If ya need a ear to bend just holler,