building a 360, and newbie 360 questions!

Almost no difference in the heads. The ports will be fully ported out and the stock differences in the head, and how minor they are, will disapear. A full porting job will get them to flow those numbers.

A comp 3 angle valve job is work done on the seat area where the valve rests. ok, that's what i thought.

I don't know the way your country rates octane. 12-1 in the states by the RM2 method is good for a 10-1 iron head and a decent sized street/strip cam. There are variables to this and I'm not getting into them because it would be 2 pages long and generate more questions that would take up another 3 pages.
premium pump gas here in the US is 92-93 octane. most anything higher than that has to be bought at the track or a supplier of some kind, though there are exceptions.
If you don't think the octane you have now is good enuff for a 12-1, then this build isn't for you now is it?
no, you're right. i didn't see the compression ratio on first glance. my fault.

A strip Dom and 770 Holley is good for a screaming engine.
by "screaming" engine, you mean a high RPM engine, running something more sturdy than the stock bottom end? or is this good for a build WITH the stock bottom end?
Typical full head porting prices are about $2000 fully done. This will include new valves and set up with surplied springs of the cam being used.
the Eddie heads aren't that expensive- would these heads flow similar to the aluminum eddies, or would they flow more? i have also heard that i can up my compression with pump gas by a full point with aluminum, which would make for a SAFER 11:1 compression engine. my friend built a 318 running 11:1 on pump gas, and it ran very nicely with the aluminum heads.
Your better off going with the last package for a street brute and a low enuff commpression ratio to run pump gas.
which is the last package we're talking about here? package six that i mentioned?
Get wide sticky tires, you'll need them.
no doubt i will. thinking about 275s-some radials for the street and some sticky slicks for the track.
For a simple build and pump gas, package 5 with the Holley is your best bet.
i guess i'm sortof mixing and matching here, making my own "package." i don't like the idea of having something just like everyone else's.

thanks demon, it sounds to me like the edelbrock heads are the way to go. the hardest part for me will be getting them ported, as i do not know of anyone in the area with a flow bench.
also, thanks for your patience. i appreciate you guys helping me with this.