How did you get her involved in cars?

The problem is that she knows that cleaning glass, polishing chrome, screwing trim on and all the other small things is "***** work" she wants to do the fun stuff like weld, build and the motor. She wants to make things work like molding in whatever tail lights we decide to use, build a custom rear bumper and things like that. So I can't get away with saying "Here honey polish these chrome parts." she would throw them at me and say "Do it yourself asshole!"

She has gone to my buddies wreaking yard with me and crawled under an old dodge truck in about 10 inches (no I'm not kidding! ) of mud and stingy nettles to pull off a set of slant six headers. She dove under that truck like it was nothing and the next day she was all dolled up and you could never even guess what she did the day before.

I know she can do it if I showed her it's more me getting over the fact that there is someone else besides my dog in MY garage working with MY tools on her car.