Why do some members stiff me?

well for those out there that do that to guy's sellin good part's at good prices,candy store won't be open forever,your makin it hard on the good guy's both seller's and buyer's that are serious,get with the program!!! how many hoop's you wan't people to jump thru to do you a favor???I have gotten to where I will guess at the cost's of shipping to the best of my knowlege and quote that,I take a beating on it sometimes and sometimes in my favor,even gave a refund to a guy that ordered the wrong part and told him to keep it and sell it when he can then send me the money from it,I can't afford to do that but can't afford the shipping loss either.I have taken too many trip's to the post office for a shipping quote after pulling and taking pic's and boxing stuff up to absorb any more loss and really don't need the extra work to do for deadbeat buyers,there are too many good people on here for you to go wrecking the whole program with your sniveling and tire kicking,so go your lazy :bootysha: to all the junkyards and spend your time gas and money trying to find the part's you need and come back educated about the time it takes for people to do your :bootysha: a favor.and if you say you wan't something....stick to your word!!! that's what needs to be done so think before you say you wan't something and make sure you have payment in hand.one seller I know put's a price on his parts that include shipping and I think I'll adopt that policy,He's by far one of the great members here to do business with and very honest about description's of his parts and super fair about his prices!!!Hat's off to ya oldschoolcuda,and the other good folk's here on f.a.b.o. ya'll are awesome!!Wow...I somehow turned this into a goodguy thread......sorry for the hijacking sg and you can raid my pully pile if you need to!
SG, that has happened to me a few times here on the forum (and others as well). Some people like to take you down the path and have you pull/remove parts, work out the shipping and sometimes package it all up only to pull the "No thank you" card out at the end. A little frustrating but I chalk it up to ... uh ... actually, I don't know what to chalk it up to. ;)