can anyone answer this?????

I would probably buy something like this:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/NEW-...ptZMotorsQ5fCarQ5fTruckQ5fPartsQ5fAccessories
and a nice trans temp guage like one of these:
http://www.glowshiftdirect.com/black-7-color-transmission-temperature-gauge.aspx
And if the trans is not running as cool as it should, then you could add an aftermarket trans cooler like this:
http://cgi.ebay.com/ebaymotors/Al-T...ptZMotorsQ5fCarQ5fTruckQ5fPartsQ5fAccessories
They appear to be very well made.
When installing an external trans cooler, I think it is supposed to be plumbed into the return line going back to the trans.