extreme wheel alignment problem -- need help

For sure get a new alignment shop. what I would do is set the ride height to where you want it then go get the alignment done. you might have control arm bushing or ball joint problems so just jack the front end up and try to wiggle the wheel up and down and side to side. if its really bad you will notice it. but again the shop should look for those things during an alignment. quite a few shops these days seem to think a toe setting is all they need to set and thats a bunch of b.s.