Lower Control Arm Doesnt go back in????

Yes, when stacked together as show without the thickness of the frame
added in (shoulder takes up most of that) the sleeve is 1/4" shorter than
the length of the stacked bushings. Torque spec is 45 ft lbs on the strut
nut. Seems like that sleeve should be longer as I cant imagine the bushings
compressing that much under specified torque. I was going to cut the bushings and sleeve down some, but it looks like the sleeve doesn't need to
but cut that much.

They can't set absolutely flush with the sleeve. If they did, it would allow too much movement in the strut rod. They need some compression. As hard as they seem, they will compress.

It will be really hard to compress and tighten them with the LCA all angled down. I would snug them now and finish tightening at ride height. Use a nylock nut if you don't shave them down. This is because the cotter pin probably won't fit with two uncut poly bushings. I think the 73-76 strut rods might though.

Pin hole is visible in upper left corner of picture. Yes, I put one in there. And you can see how the aftermarket sway bar bushing does not sit in the factory k-member cross bar. Energy does sell a thin version that fits in there for the factory sway bar like I had on there at that time.