HELP, struggaling

I used to do this all the time by myself. The fit is tight. Have you tried pulling it in with bolts. (Trans into bell housing?)
Now that I'm starting to get up in age, (Not the young **** strong kid anymore) I need my wifes help. I do it with a regular floor jack. She'll raise and lower the jack as needed via my needs under the car. I'm lining it up and pushing it in. Shes pulling.

One day I spent 8 hours trying to do it. She came home and helped. Within 10 min.'s a 2 try's, it was a slam dunk.