I have been there years sgo and understand the pain. I dated her 7 years married her and she left for a guy she worked with after 1 1/2 years. What really sucked was coming home after work from my 2nd job[yes I was working 2 jobs] and finding the home gutted and the bank books on the counter with BALANCE $1 written in them. That was back in November 1994 and I have not yet re-married.
