My Wife Left Me Today -sucks

It will get better, it just takes time.
My 1st wife had to find herself, we had 2 boys and were married for only 3 years. When she left I was devastated but I would not let her take our boys.Turns out my best friend kicked his wife out and allowed mine to move in with him. Found this out by a 3am phone call from his wife. Went from 270lbs to 180lbs in no time (I'm 6'4) and couldn't understand what I did wrong.Well after some time I realised it wasn't my fault and I had kids that really needed me. After 14 years of making sure the boys were raised right (never dated since I never had time) my present wife walked into my life with her 2 boys. Now after 10 years of marriage I look back and am glad she did leave. I've heard she's on her 4th marriage and all have ended with her cheating. Make sure you keep your health up (eat and sleep) it will get. better.