My Wife Left Me Today -sucks

I've seen quite a few marriages fall apart in church.

The women want to tell the fellowship about the marital problems then the next thing you know......It's over and you see how you'd been judged out of the mix by people who didn't like you, or liked her a little too much.

This happened to a family member with HIS own church, except it was over his secretary, that he turned down, next thing you know she's telling everyone that he had impure thoughts for not telling his wife what happened [but why stirr up sht?] anyhow.....he left the church and his wife left him too.