rants&venting ! is there rules for selling items here?

im srry if my knowlage of evrey little rod and nut on a car isnt great but i should not be punished for it .

Of course you should , that is the only way you will learn . The answers are in the car manuals (alot of the time with illustrations) , buy the right FACTORY manuel for you car and use it . If it still doesn't make sense , then ask a question . Do your own homework , if you take shortcuts , you get what happened to you .