rants&venting ! is there rules for selling items here?

how about people just accepting responsibility for there own actions? you sold somebody a non-complete linkage set? instead of coming up with excuse after excuse, just step up and say that you (the seller) are at fault because i did not verify it was all there? on the seller end, instead of going on for days about it, how about "my bad, i did not get pictures." and if you are unsure if all the parts are there because you don't have an illustration go by, how about accepting the fact that this is no ones fault but you own and moving on. selling a car that is your dads? instead of going on and on about how busy dad is and this is not your fault that dad is busy and the title was not taken care of blah balh blah, how about stepping up and saying to the seller, before he shows up with the trailer, i have not had a chance to get the title taken care of so please wait until my i can get it taken care of? and to the buyer of the car, instead of letting this become an issue, back out of the driveway of the seller, explaining that you will return when the title is resolved, and deducting the price of the second trip to pick the car up off the price of the vehicle? sorry for the rant, but i sure as hell feel better..lol. seriously though, people do need to take responsibility for there own actions and stop pointing the finger at others......again, sorry for the rant....