Mike, I haven't chimed in simply because those who have, have done a great job sharing with you his or her own story on this. Sometimes the best reaction in a crowd is to keep quiet and let those with more knowledge speak.
I'm glad the title of the thread has changed, buddy, and you've come to the realization that life is our most precious gift. I'm proud of our family here for stepping up and offering to talk to you, making calls, sharing stories. You did the right thing when you reached out.