I don't get it
"He who desires to take a wife, will have trouble in this life."
Your Proverb for the day.
Honestly, I counsel this stuff all the time.......your counselor wants to wean her from her major control mechanism.......but it ain't gonna be a velvety smooth ride.
Get used to some bumps, and thank God for a counselor who has eyes to see.
Love her unconditionally too. Good luck. Doc