How did everyone end up where there at?

well..I'm only 23 and I live in the bay area, ca... gilroy to be specific...I live with my dad...I love it here in Cali, the weather is perfect...but the laws and rules and DMV stuff is just wrong...houses are expensive, and 350-400 grand might get you something decent here...i have no idea how anybody can afford an 800K plus house...that's ridiculous...

I have no idea when I'll be able to live by myself...