How were you raised?
Brought up by a Hard working logger for a Dad and a stay at home Mom. I'm number 3 of 4 and am the results of my Dad getting home from Korea after serving there. Was taught to respect others, never hit girls, never start a fight but don't be afraid to finish one.
Grandmother was my Sunday school teacher at, like you smallblock, the assembly of god.
Folks didn't make much money but we always had clean clothing to wear, clean bedding to sleep in and good food to eat.
Lived and went to school in six different towns in two different states. Even lived in Borneo for a year while my Dad logged over there.