well my car got f'ed up. t boned!

I say if I took my 98 Neon w/o anti-lock brakes up to 35 mph and slammed on the brakes it would only skid 25 feet or so. A resonable speed there would be 25 mph or less and the skid marks would have been 10-15 feet. His skid marks go 35 feet or more and then still impact at a good rate of speed, probably 10-15 mph. He was either going a good 45-50 or his braking system was not functioning properly. That gate would be treated like a one lane bridge, first come first across and you should actually stop before crossing. He had no intention of stopping. I'd say you were right and he was going to drift that turn.

I agree with you Hersbird, I´ve been looking at the pics several times and can´t in any way I look at it, come to another conclusion then he was going way to fast into that curve.
And then when looking at the damage he made to your car I would say that it would take quite a high speed or no braking at all. The space to the right of the skidmarks got to be at least 2 yards,or? so I would say he had plenty of room to avoid a crash in to your car, at least if he held a speed of the car so that he could´ve kept it in control.
Just my 2C
Lets hope for the best, so that you´ll be able to send your wagon for the repairs.