tons of 3 to 4 speed swap qustions, and/or putting a 360 behind my 3 speed???????????

The trans will not bolt up. You need a V8 trans amn bell housing. Any starter will work. A 360 is externaly balanced and should use the proper "360 external balanced" flywheel. MoPar has them brand new. A clutch plate and pressure plate should be purchased new, just say you have a external balnced Chrysler 360 with what ever your spline count is on the tranny. It will be ethier 18 or 23, the 23 is most popular.

To swap in the V8, Schmaucher (http://engine-swaps.com/index.html) has a kit or if it is an early model A body. Trans Dapt has cheap kit, but no motor mounts to go with it. Purchase them seperatly.