Here's how I would do it if it were mine. Take the 4 flex plate to converter bolts out, along with all the other stuff needed to get the old 904 out. Take it out, and before you start back with the new 904, take your new converter and stick it up in there and make sure the center hub fits into the crank register. If that's good, lay the converter down face up. Remove the flex plate from the end of the crank and lay it on the converter oriented like it will be when everything is all bolted up. Rotate the flex plate around until all 4 bolt holes line up and run the bolts in a few threads to be double dang sure! While it is laying there with all four flex plate to converter bolts in, pick a spray paint color of your choice and spray a little on 1 ear of the flex plate, and onto the converter in the same place. Let it dry, remove the flex plate and bolt it back to the crank flange, torquing it to 55 ft. lbs. Rotate the motor with a socket until that ear you painted on the flex plate is on the bottom, if it didn't end up there. Put your converter back in the new 904 and proceed with the install. Line the paint on the converter up with the painted ear on the flex plate and install a bolt. I leave that one finger tight and rotate the crank with the socket and install the other 3 bolts. I tighten them fully as I go, since after the second one lines up, the remaining 2 will also. Work back to the painted place and tighten that bolt and you're done with the flex plate/converter part.
Sorry for the book. Everybody said paint it....but didn't really tell you why. It only takes one time of doing it the hard way to learn that lesson, so I was just tryin to make it make sense so you didn't do just that. Good luck with it.