It's for sure not drugs, we enlisted him in a private school for at risk teens, they piss test them every semester he's been clean two semesters now. It's the girl, she's on probation for stealing and assaulting an 70 year old man.
I don't really want to pry into your family dynamics, but are you and your wife responsible for this lad? I would just be careful and watch everything closely. I see flags here and you should, too. There has to be something else in play here that just can't be attributed to "the girl". Just saying....
