Hi-temp RTV works, if the surfaces are clean. I usually put a bead on both surfaces to be joined.I dry fit the intake to make sure it fits well, and if necessary,I pull the roll-pins out.Those rails like to leak at the corners where the intake meets the heads. I spend extra care there in cleaning, and put a heavy blob of RTV there, following the gasket.
Any chance the oil is coming from the top rail of the timing cover.
Are the breathers clear, in both directions? It sounds like she's pressurizing the crankcase.The crankcase should not be trying to contain blow-by pressure. The pressure should be escaping through the breathers.
Some of us have problems with the china-wall being too high,lol, and a non-existent gap.