Thanks everyone for all the advice. Update: found the bolt and washer at Napa. $8.
started to thread it in, until I realized I don't have a socket large enough for the bolt. i only had a 1in. So off it came. Tried the bump method with screw driver on the starter. fun sparks, got it close.
Then got it tight with my boney hands. left hand on lower belt, right hand on power steering pully. Pull with left hand, while pushing down on steering pump. And I was able to move it in small increments until I got TDC.
reinstalled distrib., check timing, got it to about 8deg before and it is running nicely.
Decided the alt belt was too loose, spread it out a little more, tightened the mounting screw back and....stripped it. ******* comedy of errors right over here.
so i guess now time to remove the alt., get out my old tap/die set and see what I have to do now.