Personally I do hate those that wrong me, but if they get me twice , it is my fault!! When I was younger I could have serious vengeance in mind. I ask God Almighty for forgiveness for those thoughts.
Same here. If anyone tries to screw me over a 2nd time, I remove them from my life - permanently. I do not hold a grudge against them; neither do I allow them a chance to do it again. I have had to recently end a couple of long term friendships because of this. It seems that some people assume since they have known you such a long time, they can abuse your trust. Once the trust is gone - the friendship ends.
