Well I be pretty happy! I did not want to be the life of the party. If you want to post this personal **** do it on face book. This is a classic car forum, not a HOW TO RAISE YOUR KID forum. Your the dude that screwed up, and if you would reread you own post you would know that. My kids are grown up, with no meds but I did own a switch and it worked. Be firm and stop making excuses.