DD, I offer you a free ticket to my next workshop, "How to abandon OCD for TCOIL-M" (better known as Take Care Of It Later........Maybe). It offers many life tips and highlights the beauty of not really giving a crap if things get done or not. The really truly necessary does get enough attention to keep the wheels from falling off, but otherwise if it can wait and I'm not interested in it, off it goes to the Black Hole of Projects. Where it will join an immense backlog of other crap all waiting its turn to come back in the spotlight.