Starter stays engaged ONLY in park???

I'm confident that the problem isn't in the starter, rather something amiss in the wiring keeping the solenoid engaged.
Yes the relay trigger is hooked up to a constant power source.
A1C is that power source and was/is somehow being fed when the key is in run.

maybe fed by the alternator like this
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