Yep, 3.5" skinnies are different than the 5.5" wide and up wheels.
If you need lugs for the wheels, this guy from E-bay is great.
http://feedback.ebay.com/ebaymotors/ws/eBayISAPI.dll?ViewFeedback2&userid=lugnutkingiv2005&ftab=AllFeedback
He made me a split set of open end lugs for the thinner...