GeorgeH
Well-Known Member
This thread has hit home big time for me. First of all, your pain and mobility issues demand and have demanded a proactive invasive approach for quite awhile now. At this juncture you're lucky you have not suffered irreversible paralysis. Your choices are over.
I had S1-L3 fused with instrumentation in late 2009. Turns out the culprits were genetic DDD, military and occupational. I was 55. Afterwards I felt like I had anew lease on life and
lived like it..........AND did a lot of damage to the massive amount of spinal slice 'n dice I'd undergone.
After I lost my beloved wife to Fahr's Syndrome early last year my spinal problems got to the point where I too had no quality of life. By the grace of God I was able to take care of my sweet bride in our house until she was called home. It was my honor and privilege to be my wife's sole caregiver and I'm deeply grateful to have been able to do so.
This past May the quality of my life plummeted. When my gal died I lost the med insurance we had through her retirement plan. I could have continued making Cobra payments but who has that kind of money right? Turns out I was eligible for healthcare through the VA....40+ years after the fact. I asked them for help in May and in June underwent a 7 hour
fandango and another 2 hour dance in July. They had to do a "revision" of the original surgery - read repairing lots of damage and then fusing and bolting L3-L2. It's been 2 weeks or so now since I had to take an oxycodone for pain except for one day (the day I bought the Dart). I'm holding my own with ibuprofen and Tylenol and am able to walk without a cane although I still carry one on my "weak" days just in case but my back still hurts, my right leg still gets very weak, my balance is still compromised and my ice pack is still my best friend. I'm now 61 just and my recovery is slow, gotta love getting older. My overall health was/is good but I have an extra stone or two I wish I wasn't carrying around. Weight is a ***** to lose as we age despite how healthy our diets/lifestyle are and the reality is its too late to be thinking about losing weight now.
Pardon my diatribe here but my points are these.
PROTECT YOUR BACK AT ALL COSTS THROUGHOUT YOUR LIFE. Do you hear me all you young bucks out there? We've all been invincible in our lives, we've also been issued only one spine.
DONT EVER LET ANY SAWBONES TOUCH YOUR SPINE IF THERE ARE ANY VIABLE OPTIONS.
Laser this, injection that, PT, accu whatever etc are bandaids nothing more.
IF PUSH COMES TO SHOVE....AND YOU ARE BEING SHOVED NOW, ITS BETTER TO TAKE THE KNIFE, SUFFER THROUGH RECOVERY AND REGAIN 70-90% OF YOUR OLD MOBILE CAPABLE SELF THAN DO NOTHING AND GET THE CHAIR.
Yes, you may still have to take some form of Rx pain meds or maybe not. Spinal surgery is at best a crap shoot plain and simple. You will be making hard choice permanent lifestyle changes after your surgery. If you don't you'll get the chair. For me, I will never restore another car. I'll never lift anything over 25-30lbs again and where I'm at in June of 2015 is where I'll be the rest of my life. It looks like I'll be about 75-80% of normal and I'm damned glad for that. This is reality for me.
Don't let them do anymore than what you've discussed. Keep in mind that once they get you open they may find other damage they must repair.......the "crap shoot" thing.
Understand that you will never be 100% again and that losing weight will be an even greater challenge after your surgery.
This is tough and scary to hear......have all of your affairs in order.....again the "crap shoot" thang. The upside is med technology is far better now than it was even a couple years ago so be positive, be strong and fight like hell to recover.
While you are recovering find a public swimming pool that offers a gentle water aerobics/fitness class tailored for folks like us. Sign up for it and go 2-3 weekly. Believe me, it's one of the best things you can do for yourself other than another Mopar, 70 virgins and "that " lotto ticket.
I'll look forward to hearing you ***** and complain after your surgery. You'll be walking and you'll be alive.
Look this bastard right in the eye and drag its nasty *** through the gates.
Tom
Alot of truth in these statements. I have been through 2 diskectomies on the same disk in my lower back and a cervical fusion. 3 surguries total. A recent mri has showed that the repaired disc is now ruptured again and the disk above the neck fusion is herniated. Also several other (6 total) herniated discs throughout my spine. next time in my back 4 discks need fused
Some days are bettter than others . Celebrix is my best friend. I totally agree with the above statements that once you have issues it becomes about lifestyle change. Once you have issues you need to consciously take precautions to not further accelerate or risk further damage.