Hey doogievlg! I moved from Central NY to Colorado in 1990. I'm the youngest of 8, 4 bros & 3 sis. (they all still live there) I took a job in Denver as a mechanic but only lived there for 8 or so months. Didn't like the BIG city much. I wanted to live in the mountains. So I took a mechanics job in Gunnison. Po Dung CO. Tiny town. I loved it! I was 22, young and full of.. you know. I knew no one there. It was exciting! Not to have any preconceived notions of who you are. Just a resume. It gave me a chance to shine, learn tons of new things and make new friends. Learning about the state, the mountains and the Western way was very cool! I learned to snow board, mountain climb and fly fish. (although I still prefer drowning worms from a boat LOL) It was a collage town with pretty girls so I stayed busy. I lived there for five years (no regrets) before I moved to Durango CO. I have been here ever since. (no regrets) I got lucky to find the girl of my dreams here, a native Durangin' and we got hitched! I will say at first all I wanted was to get the hell out of Syracuse and find something new and better weather! LOL! I'm 45 now and still love it here. Close to Utah, Arizona, New Mexico and the west in general. Killer camping, rafting, boating and sick scenery! I have learned a ton and seen a ton but all in all as I've grown-up (relative term LOL) I miss my family more and more every day. My Mom, 82 survived my Dad and I don't know how many more chances we will have to spend with her. We try to go back every year for vaca. She has 7 of her kids around her for support so I don't worry to much about her. That being said, go for it! You have nothing but NEW ahead of you and that's how we grow. Never forget where you came from and never burn any bridges. You'd be surprised how often you'll need to cross them again. If you end up any where close I would love to help with your projects! It's a huge move and if your family is behind you, they will be there when you need them. Good luck on you decisions!
Larry