BTYM
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The wife and I are expecting our first child in October. We found out Superbowl Sunday. At first, I wasn't really that worried. We've been together 6 years, married almost 2 years. We each have decent jobs. We bought our first house a couple of months ago. Everything seems to be fine. We kind of went the traditional route, Marriage, careers, house, kids... But lately, whether it's the hormones or not I have no idea, my wife has been making me nervous as heck. She seems to think we have to sell every worldly possession we own to be able to afford a baby. Now, I'm no idiot, I realize kids aren't cheap, but I just can't figure out where she's getting her numbers from. We don't plan on buying formula, so there's some money saved right there. We've been stocking up on diapers since we found out, granted we don't have enough to last us until potty training, but it still helps. Babies grow fast, so maybe new clothes every couple months, but newborns don't need Nike's, and Tommy Hilfigure jeans... We have a stroller, it came with the house. Our friends are giving us some of their old baby stuff, crib, high chair, etc... I just don't get it. She's actually driving me bonkers lol. Any of you guys with kids have any advice? It can't be that expensive, but then again, what do I know, I've never had a kid before. Every time I go to order a part or a tool, my wife jumps my arse lol. I suppose I should try to put some of that stuff on the backburner until she calms down, but working on the car calms me down so there's gotta be some kind of compromise.