65LoveAffair
Whovian
Just got some news today that has MommaCat and I a little flustered, to say the least. My mother moved from Central IL to Michigan about four years ago to live with my oldest sister. My mom was having some health issues at the time, and Michigan was a less-stress location for her. My wife and I, and our son, were living in my mom's house down here in IL to help take care of things while my mom was gone. The agreement was that we would take care of the the house, mow the grass, and pay for things like cable and internet, and my mom would pay the power bill, homeowner's insurance, and the property tax. The house is paid for, so that wasn't an issue. All around, it was a nice situation, and benefited us all.
Recently, within the last year or so, my mom's health has been in decline. She has dementia, but we're not sure yet what form it has taken. We don't know if it is Alzheimer's, Lewy Body disease, or what. She goes in to the doctor this week for more testing and another MRI. Not quite out of the blue, my sister called me today and told me that my mom is signing the house over to me and MommaCat. It was something that we had been expecting for a while, just not quite so soon. I have never owned a house before, so I'm feeling a little out of my league to say the least. Plus, with me being out of work at the moment, this really couldn't have come at a worse time. Granted, we did just quit smoking a few months ago so there is extra money we wouldn't have had, but the extra bills now of insurance, power, and everything are going to hurt.
Please, don't get me wrong. I'm not complaining, and I'm not whining. I'm 100% grateful to my mom for helping us out as long as she has. If not for her we would have been homeless a long time ago. I'm just a little frightened of what the future holds, as well as scared as hell for my mom. So far she still knows who we all are, but she's getting worse. She was down at my nephew's for Christmas, and when my sister came down to pick her up and take her home, she had absolutely no idea where she was. She doesn't drive anymore, thank God.
I think the hardest part of this is having to watch and hear about everything she's going through from a distance. But then, actually being there with her and watching it in person like my sister has to might actually be worse. I think what bothers me, and scares me, most of all is that my sister and her family all work, so my mom is left at home alone a good portion of the day. At least, she was the last time we were up there. I don't know if things have changed any recently as her illness has progressed.
Well, I'm sorry this was so long. I needed to get some things off my chest. Please wish us luck and keep us in your prayers. I think we're going to need it all. Hopefully I can find a job soon. That would ease our burdens quite a bit. In the meantime, we'll just keep praying. Thank you all for listening to me. May 2015 be peaceful and prosperous to you all.
Recently, within the last year or so, my mom's health has been in decline. She has dementia, but we're not sure yet what form it has taken. We don't know if it is Alzheimer's, Lewy Body disease, or what. She goes in to the doctor this week for more testing and another MRI. Not quite out of the blue, my sister called me today and told me that my mom is signing the house over to me and MommaCat. It was something that we had been expecting for a while, just not quite so soon. I have never owned a house before, so I'm feeling a little out of my league to say the least. Plus, with me being out of work at the moment, this really couldn't have come at a worse time. Granted, we did just quit smoking a few months ago so there is extra money we wouldn't have had, but the extra bills now of insurance, power, and everything are going to hurt.
Please, don't get me wrong. I'm not complaining, and I'm not whining. I'm 100% grateful to my mom for helping us out as long as she has. If not for her we would have been homeless a long time ago. I'm just a little frightened of what the future holds, as well as scared as hell for my mom. So far she still knows who we all are, but she's getting worse. She was down at my nephew's for Christmas, and when my sister came down to pick her up and take her home, she had absolutely no idea where she was. She doesn't drive anymore, thank God.
I think the hardest part of this is having to watch and hear about everything she's going through from a distance. But then, actually being there with her and watching it in person like my sister has to might actually be worse. I think what bothers me, and scares me, most of all is that my sister and her family all work, so my mom is left at home alone a good portion of the day. At least, she was the last time we were up there. I don't know if things have changed any recently as her illness has progressed.
Well, I'm sorry this was so long. I needed to get some things off my chest. Please wish us luck and keep us in your prayers. I think we're going to need it all. Hopefully I can find a job soon. That would ease our burdens quite a bit. In the meantime, we'll just keep praying. Thank you all for listening to me. May 2015 be peaceful and prosperous to you all.