lol... I don't think there are too many chicks on here.
Maybe I need to spend sometime alone for awhile... maybe to try to find myself. I've been in love before but I also have been on the other side. The part that hurts and it is very hard to understand. Twice. My friend says that I should have a heart of leather by now... easy to move on another words. It's not like I want my ex back but I'm tired of getting stomped on. I treated the last two the best I knew how... one was living with her parents, no job, no transportation, etc... I found her a job,car, and of course somewhere to stay besides her parents. We was friends for awhile before we fell for one another. I guess my friends are right ... I just have a problem of finding good women. Geez I'm depressing aren't I?
Mopar318Guy, I wish you the very best and hope you have better luck than I did.
Yeah, I'd stay away from the "needy" types.
Seems like they just use nice guys such as yourself, and my Brother which has has two marriages and went from one needy, royal beeatch to another.
She is making his life a living hell, and nothing he does is right, he makes twice as much money as she does, and pays all the bills, takes care of her horses every morning and evening, and she uses her teenage Daughter from a previous marriage as a wedge between the two of them.
She has not been intimate with him for over a year and had quit going to every councelor they attempted to talk to because every one of them tells her she is the problem and needs to change things about herself.
I keep trying to tell my Brother to get her a T-shirt with a big #4 on the front, and when she asks "What is this for?" he can say "It's for your 4'th husband, you nasty witch!"
They each have one teenage kid from previous marriages, and they have a 3 year old together which is the ONLY reason he wants to try to make it work, but no matter how much he tries, he is not good enough for her spoiled ***.
He does not drink or smoke or run around.
The only thing he does to keep his sanity is play drums as a profesional drummer in a band and from time to time gets contracted to cut professional albums in the studio for bands that need a good percussionist.
He is a good guy with a big heart, handsome,extremely intelligent, and fun to be around, but I have no idea why he picks these chicks that just use him up and treat him like a pile of dog meat.
I keep telling him to ditch her venemous ***, take his chances with shared custody of their little girl and go find a sweet, little honey that can appreciate him.
Holy crap, did we hijack this thread or what?
Sorry 318.
Kids look to their parents relationship as a guide for building their own. My wife is the best (I'm whipped... I know) she makes me want to be a better person. We talk all the time and remember the early days. It's a constant reminder of why we fell in love in the first place and we feed off of the good times to pull through the not so good ones. most people see it like "I make the money and the wife runs the house". but it really is a partnership that takes work from both sides, and not just 50-50 but 110%-110% that way when one of you falls short ( and you/she will ) its not 10-50 or..well you get the idea.
besides I'm sure you'll look hot in fuchsia
